Who needs to waste your time with self help books and psychologist. All I really need is some good old fashion retail therapy!
I let it fall, my heart, And as it fell you rose to claim it It was dark and I was over Until you kissed my lips and you saved me But there’s a side to you That I never knew, never knew. All the things you’d say They were never true, never true, And the games you play You would always win, always win.
"In the end, you’re always left with experiences. Those mean more than the mementos. Remembering a day in which you felt safe and in love will permanently lodge itself into your memory. It’s not going to budge. You’re left with the satisfaction of knowing that you were loved and can be loved again."
“Sex-negative messages don’t keep people from having sex. They keep people from having good sex. They keep people from having pride in their sexuality, from sexual self-awareness. They keep people from asking questions about sex, and communicating with their partners. They discourage experimentation. They blur the lines between consensual sex and rape by framing all sex as an undifferentiated mass of “bad.”
— Sex-Negative Education and the Spectre of Rape « Sex Positive Activism